I'd like to see you make me

There are a few more tactics Rose has attempted to employ to get out of trouble.

Our therapist wisely suggested we try the consequence of ignoring her her behavior. That consequence typically works. Although lately she's tried a new tactic, "Mom, wouldn't you really be punishing yourself? You know you want to spend time with me. Why would you give yourself that consequence?"

It almost made me laugh. I felt impressed by her technique. I tried to keep my awe hidden. I told her I do want to spend time with her, I love to spend time with her but her decision is hers alone. She understand the consequence. She tried the same tactic on the PCA last  night. To no avail.

To be honest, I would prefer that quasi-manipulative response over the new oh so 11-year-old response of, "I'd like to see you make me."  For some reason those seven point five words incite a fire in my brain like no other. I'm sure I said them to my mom, but gosh, I don't remember doing so.