Also, this lady has a pretty intense and healthy respect for superstition. If I post the positive, two days later I'll likely have something to the contrary to write.
Well, that's silly. When Rose grows up, if she reads this, she'll only get stories of angst. And really, there have been so many positive times, and really we are very proud of our Rose
Like in recent weeks, we've been kind of killing it. As parents we are learning letting go and saying yes to things can make life a lot easier. We implemented a character points system allowing Rose allowance and privilege.
How's it work? Well, it's rather brilliant so be prepared to be awed.
If Rose is caught in a lie and owns up, she gets 100 points. If she fesses up on a second attempt, 75 and so on. Four attempts to come clean whole earning points.
Depending on the issue, a consequences might still be warranted, but she will still be rewarded for owning up. In addition, she earns points for not arguing, for apologizing without being asked, for helping out with a good attitude. Basically, for being a person who shows good character.
And...drum roll please... I have noticed a change. She's arguing less. We haven't had any issues with behavior at the Y. Best of all, she is proud to be handed character money to spend on Y field trips, which is what her character points earn her: spending money and freedom.
As a result, everyone seems a little less tired and grumpy--allowing us to enjoy thinks like fireworks! Yay!
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